4 January 2012
I’m no Cosmopolitan Magazine writer but I’d like to say I know a thing or two about relationships.
Here are some things that I think contribute to making a good impression on a woman. Especially on the first date, although these rules can be applied to most any situation when you’re with a girl.
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I don’t think it’s necessary to pay for dinner every time nor do I think (or like) when a guy is TOO nice to me and makes me feel uncomfortable with all of the things he’s doing for me but you have to show the girl that you want to make her feel good. That she’s taken care of. That concept is easy to understand.
This can apply in a more casual setting as well: get her a beer, play a game of pong with her, get her coat from the room she stored it in, walk her home (go to step 4). Compliments are an easy way to a girl’s heart, and the bedroom…. If you cannot afford something extravagant, be creative. Which leads me to my second point.
If it’s nice out do something outdoors, play a sport or game (this is good for first dates because playing a game takes stress off of trying to make good conversation), take a cooking class (they have one time deals off of sites like Groupon) museums can be good if you both share an interest, concerts, festivals the list goes on and on. Just do something out of the ordinary. I promise, girls like to see that you’ve given the date some thought.
Talk yourself up, girls like it. Just don’t be over confident because that comes off as egotistical. Make sure you pause in your epic stories about how you won that lacrosse game with questions about her. There is definitely a fine line between the two but being able to speak about yourself positively is always sexy.
I’m not saying bang her on the first date, but showing that you’re into her physically is always a plus. The girl will leave the date feeling much more confident that a second date will occur if there’s a kiss involved somewhere in the night.
Yes, it may be a bit uncomfortable and the girl will go home pissed and will stay pissed for about 3-5 days. But that’s one thing guys don’t understand about women; we move on. Often way quicker than you do. So just do us all a favor and be honest if you’re not into it. That way, both parties will get on with their lives and have better dates in the future.
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