|Flirting feels good|
By: Narayguy (founder)
In college, lots of people’s sex lives explode.
Vast increases in freedom and social venues allow for meeting more attractive people, more excitement, and usually a few more opportunities to, well, get the job done.
So its crucial to identify where you stand in the ball game. Do you want relationship, casual fun, or to juggle multiple hook-ups? Something else maybe? You’ll likely find the right matches for all of these if you put yourself out there enough.
But, when your wants differ from those of someone you’re mingling with, things can get messy. Two people never agree on everything, its just impossible. Disagreements lead to unnecessary stress in college, but if you’re clear with your new buddy from the start on what you want, its hard for them to argue later on.
Don’t let someone else’s needs or wants trump yours, or lie to yourself. The selfish lover is out there everywhere, and usually comes out on top. And college, first and foremost, should be a time of getting what you want.
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